Author Archives: Kent Brooks

About Kent Brooks

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Today I am thankful…


…for my family and friends.  The last few months has been a challenging transition… trying to launch a private practice… looking for an agency position that’s a good fit… revamping my marketing via Twitter… cleaning the house and getting organized… catching up on yard work I have been neglecting since I have been so busy reading.  On the whole, I feel good about where I am at.
Thank you, friends, family, colleagues, mentors, supervisors, etc for helping me get to where I am today.

An ambitious goal for this blog…


So, for the better part of the last couple years I have been focused on reading and producing for school.  I am finally in a position where I can write a little more “from the hip.”  I’m not sure what that means yet, but stay tuned… I will be periodically making observations about life that I hope you find helpful.  It’s just one perspective, so try not to read too much into any one post.
Just as a sidebar, I will also be cleaning out my archives and posting quite a few white papers and assignments that I have yet to publish.  This may incrementally increase the speed of this feed (for subscribers) for a period of time.  I apologize in advance for anything that does not immediately meet your interests and/or needs.  My hope is that if you find something relevant to someone you know, you forward it on.  If no, get trigger happy on that delete button and wait for the next one.

I also wanted to personally thank each and every one of my subscribers.  Community Chest Counseling, PSC and try-therapy.com have taken leaps and bounds over the course of the last few years.  I have really attempted to utilize much of the feedback that you, our readers, have suggested.  If there is anything we can do to serve you better please don’t be shy… we need your feedback!

Finally ~ expect more personal insight on this blog than you have be become accustomed to.  I am going to set a goal to post at least once daily.  Going forward this is my writing outlet.  I hope you find some of it worthwhile reading.

Best Wishes to all of you,
Kent Brooks, MS, PLMHP

Bellevue University’s Master of Science in Clinical Counseling (MSCC) Program – Anything but a Diploma Mill


Today I was honored to be asked for my experience at Bellevue University.  For those of you, prospective students, whom are considering entry into the Bellevue University – Master of Science in Clinical Counseling (MSCC) program… I implore you to read on.

This is my story…

“After all the highways, and the trains, and the appointments, and the years, you end up worth more dead than alive.”  (Arthur Miller, Death of a Salesman, Act 2)  I was like Arthur – liked – but not well liked.  I had spent nearly a decade in sales and it was time for a change.  I asked myself a simple question:  “If I continue to do this for a living, who’s going to show up at my funeral?”  The answer wasn’t pretty… maybe, if I was lucky, half a dozen close friends and some family.

I had to burn the boats to ensure that I wouldn’t be tempted to go back into automation mode for the sake of safety and money… $65,000 a year for minimal effort as a salesman was very tempting.  After the boats were burned I was fully committed – there was no way I could go back to the blind automation of the corporate sales game.  If you ask most financially savvy people, investing 2.5 years and nearly $60,000 for the right and the privilege to take a $35,000/year pay-cut isn’t wise.  I believed what I would obtain at Bellevue University was priceless.  I sought more than just an education – I yearned for personal and professional growth that a paycheck could not provide.  The Bellevue University MSCC program delivered something money can’t buy… piece of mind.

The faculty and staff at Bellevue University exceeded my expectations at every turn.  The textbooks are generally well chosen and represent best of breed, evidence-based, empirically supported, clinical counseling practice and techniques.  The courses are well constructed such that every engaged student leaves with a small piece of a puzzle that will ultimately result in a complete picture of confidence and competence.

Never in my 10 year academic career have I ever been greeted for the first time, in person, with a warm “professional hug.”  Dr. Monalisa McGee provided that.  I can say with honesty and candor that she generally responds to my emails within minutes – not hours and certainly not days.  She has constructed a program in which attention to diversity runs throughout.  Under-promising and over-delivering is the order of the day in her office.

I was fortunate to have had Dr. Jane Warren early in the program, online – and again later, in the classroom.  It’s extremely unlikely that we someone like me would hit the lottery twice, but I did.  Her psychopathology course “set the tone” for my entire program.  Under her guidance I endeavored to build a mental health website that has garnered nearly 100,000 hits and over 2,500 subscribers.  The success of the site is testament to the fact that the content we study in the MSCC program is both timely and relevant… people don’t search for information they don’t need. Later, in Family Therapy, Dr. Warren showed a great deal of adaptability when the class showed more interest in couples therapy than was being provided by the original course.  She guided us to research that answered our specific questions and tailored the course to our specific needs.  Her door is always open and I have frequently “dropped in” with no notice just to have a conversation.  I am greatly indebted to her for her continued guidance and support.

Dr. Jon Kayne was, and continues to be, an invaluable resource to the program and the students it serves.  When I think of Dr. Kayne I think of one word… authenticity.  It’s not always politically correct… but it is always authentic.  In my mind, Dr. Kayne is an individual who has managed to strike a balance between “donning the veil of professionalism” and “staying true to oneself.”  Dr. Kayne is a walking lesson in congruence – living proof that we don’t have to abandon our personal values to be competent professionals.

Last but certainly not least, Professor Christine Salvatore, whom served as both onsite internship supervisor at the Stephen Center HERO program and as an Bellevue professor, was the icing on the cake.  What I appreciated most was that she acknowledged that mistakes would be made.  I confess, I made (and continue to make) mine.  I move forward into the field of clinical counseling knowing that mistakes are grist in the mill of personal and professional growth.  A few sentences can’t do justice to Christine’s uncanny ability to seize growth out of the jaws of adversity.

I really can’t do justice to the program in this short essay – feel like I am leaving so many people out.  Thank you for your extra effort and personalized attention.  Thank you for staying true to yourselves and the educational ideals you aim to represent.  Thank you for endeavoring to enhance our ability to think critically and communicate effectively.  Thank you for your candor and honesty.  Thank you for a priceless journey of self-discovery.  Thank you for listening.

Kent Brooks, MS, PLMHP

What do we have in common? We are all unique, maybe?


“No two individuals in the history of the human race have been born at the same instant, to the same parents, in to the same family and culture, with the same genetic endowment, educated in the same way, and the subject of precisely the same influences.  What makes us unique is our unique history.  But what makes us part of a personality type is the fact that we also share certain traits with other human beings.  Although we are unique, we are not totally different.  It would be an impossible world if everyone were literally completely unique, that is, if everyone were a totally dissimilar entity until himself or herself.  Language, literature, the arts, commerce, communication – all of society and culture – would be impossible if people did not have a great many qualities in common.”   (Riso & Hudson, 2000, p. 20-21)

 

References

Riso, D. R., & Hudson, R. (2000). Understanding the Enneagram: The practical guide to personality types (Rev. ed.). New York, NY: Houghton Mifflin.

Time is your most valuable resource – it can not be bought, sold, or traded. It can only be spent – spend it wisely.


 

“He was seemingly born not only with a gift for language, but with a particularly nasty clock which makes him go crazy every three years or so.”
Kurt Vonnegut, Bluebeard